Life Experiences..

As we go on in this life we have, we experience things that we never expect to happened to us. Good things, bad things, each of it teach us a lesson, each of it gives us something in return. We fight, we lose, we laugh, we cry, someone dear to us dies, it hurts us deeply. I believe that each of us have his/her own time to live here on earth with the life that God lend to us. It's up to us how we make the most out of it. We enjoy our life to the fullest, but sometimes, there are some things that happened to us and we don't want it. But, our life isn't perfect, we are not perfect. If only we can stop time and stop those dear to us to die, we may do so. But we don't have that kind of power, our life is limited, we may never know who will die tomorrow or the next day. We need to cope with the heartache of losing somebody, it leaves a mark into our minds that we can't sleep through it. But, we have to know when to hold into it, and when let it go. Memories live on, but if we keep on living in it, we will not be able to heal.

But we don't need to take it so fast. It takes time to heal the wound, the pain, the heartache. But it's not something that should take FOREVER. There are still people around us who needs us and cares for us. If we live on regret and guilt, we may just neglect those people who've been caring for us and loving us despite the things we've been going through. It's a slow process to heal, but eventually we should not forget those people who are ready to help us when we know we cannot bear it alone. Guilt is like a poison that slowly consumes us, slithering through our veins and it makes us feel so bad. But, as I've said, no one wants to see those dear to them die. NO ONE. We don't have control over the time and death of a person, yes, we can prevent it. But sometimes, all of the our options are out.

It's your will to be better, to be okay, to be able to stand again after being broken. You just have to believe that you can get through whatever you feel right now. It's your choice. Sadness is healthy when in the right amount, but if too much, it could lead to depression. We all know that in this life, we gain something, we lose something. People come and go. and literally, GO. We cannot make someone stay with us forever. But we can make the most out our time with them. Everything happens for a reason. But it's up to us if we want to be better or not. It's your choice to keep yourself within the guilt, or free yourself from it.